Penned By Board Member Ms. Alo Pal

A child loses her father at a tender age

A woman is urged to abort her third child by her own husband’s mistress

A widowed mother operates a snack cart opposite an arrack shop, gets a drinking habit, and abuses her child violently at the drop of a hat

A woman is ostracized by her family because she marries into another “lower” caste

A woman takes up a partner after the death of her husband, and this partner starts to molest his lover’s young daughter

A girl child fares well at school but has to discontinue studies and get busy with housework because she is a girl. She is forced to abandon her studies after the 10th.

A woman’s husband is abusive, a drunkard, unproductive, and jealous of his wife’s independence and capacity to earn

A society that has branded a woman’s third child, a son, as evil – just because he’s a third child and he- is a boy

An elderly alcoholic woman asks her daughter and son-in-law to move in with her as she is alone and gets his son-in-law into the habit of drinking, essentially to break up the marriage of her daughter with this man, whom she did not approve of.

A woman who doesn’t care anymore for her husband’s love, care, attention, or monetary contribution to the family, leading a tough life managing to bring food to the table, and sending her children to school has enough compassion and humanity left in her to suffer her husband and not wish him ill.
Over the years, listening to the life stories of our beneficiaries, I have heard many times the scenarios above befalling our women.

[Image 1:Tulasi]

But the situations mentioned above is Tulasi’s life story. She is 34 today.Sharana sends her three children to school under our Back to School (BTS) program, and she has received three loans under our Social Entrepreneurship Programme (SEP) to start and enhance existing businesses. Today, she doesn’t go door to door selling sanitary items anymore, nor does she operate a juice cart and weave meters and meters of flower garlands to make ends meet. Today, Tulasi operates her own petty shop. If you went there, you could purchase your commodities in a cashless transaction. She saves money meticulously for her children’s future. She inherited a plot of land; this was a compensation from the Government in lieu of a government quarter her father had. Today, the value of that land has accrued considerably, and unlike her mother, she does not discriminate between her daughter and sons. The land is security for all three children. Today, she is at the forefront of her community, whether it is to demand the police to enhance the security of her neighborhood or being a vocal role model for other women in need of help.

[Image 2: Tulasi at her shop]

Sharana was with her when she reached the pits of despair- every step of the way with support and interest-free loans, ensuring her children went to school. This is what we do.

 

[Image 3: Tulasi recieving loan from Program Manager, Mr. Prakash]